Hot on my mind lately has been the nature of secret combinations. When I started this blog several years ago, it was a direct result of having been burned by being a part of one. I didn't realize it at the time what was going on, but after studying the scriptures my eyes had been opened to what had taken place. I failed at keeping the secrets of the group, and therefore was expedited OUT of it. Recently again, I experienced the burns of a secret combination, only this time I was on the outside, watching how they work towards outsiders.
This is something I can imagine which caused Nephi some confusion, as to how such a delightsome people could turn to secret works of darkness.
I don't know how to stress how disillusioned we are to think that we do not have such things among the best of us. I have come to know for myself that we are riddled with secret works of darkness, and even foster such things. How?
Consider the tight knit group of girls at church, be it in Young Women's or Relief Society. Where are their loyalties? To one another, or to you as someone that one of them visit teaches, or serves in any capacity?
How about the Bishop and his counselors? Do they have loyalty to you, as someone perhaps confiding in their abilities to provide counsel? (Am I stretching this too far?) Do these men share your confidences with one another, to try to lift you up in prayer? Do these counselors then take the burden home, sharing with their wife, who then shares with her tight knit group of friends in a private Facebook group? Possible? I know I have heard stories from bishop's wives who assert that their husband spent so much time on their knees in silent prayer on behalf of their ward family. This is phenomenal, and beautiful. But I can't imagine that all bishops are this strict with confidences. Maybe so? Perhaps it is a spiritual gift which comes with the mantle.
If not, this has great potential to become a secret combination. Call me crazy, but it bears great capacity to be true. Perhaps there is no intent to do murder, but there is great potential for a confidence to be broken, whether implicit or implied. It is right to note that we ought not trust any man but God, so perhaps the consequence of private information being leaked is par for the course. But in truth, "secret" information has been shared in "secret counsels" and has been provided to spouses under the commitment (oath) of secrecy, that one ought not share. We foster this simply in the structure of our private meetings and presidencies.
Perhaps this is what God intended. But perhaps not. I submit that there is a great potential for evil among us in these "tight knit groups", and we ignore the warning of the Book of Mormon by never, ever ever ever ever talking about secret combinations in Church. These opportunities for secret combinations, secret trusts, secret oaths, and loyalties being severely broken causing hearts to burn in sheer pain of the disloyalty are rampant. We foster these kinds of environments. And we are all likely unknowingly guilty or participating on various ends of the situation, without even thinking twice.
Think I jest? Or exaggerate? Ask yourself, how many private meetings have you been in where secret confidences were shared with you or another soul? Was permission granted for these things to be shared? And what should happen if the private information was shared, without permission? Would relationships be severed? Could forgiveness be easily granted?
It is regrettable to me that more time is not spent in discussion on this topic in Church. I have spent quite a bit of time in Primary, so I really can't lament that it's not covered at all (since I wasn't in Sunday School anyway), but rarely is it a hot topic for discussion. Yet ironically I feel it is one of the biggest downfalls of the Book of Mormon people, and Mormon even comments that it brought down the whole Nephite civilization. I don't believe much time has been spent on consideration of how we might see secret combinations in our day, except perhaps in the periodic lessons on the parts of the Book of Mormon preceding Christ's coming. I suppose the topic may get 20 minutes of thought every 4 years or so. If that.
Helaman 7 begins the prophecy of Nephi, son of Helaman, who expounds all manner of the wickedness of the people who preceded the coming of the Lord. Nephi was a phenomenal example of how to know the Lord, for he was given to preach and call repentance, as well as hear the voice of the Lord directly. He is given power to seal on earth and in heaven, as well as move mountains.
Prior to Nephi-son-of-Helaman hearing the Lord speak power unto him, Nephi was contemplating the nature of sin that engulfed the Nephites, such that the chief judge's brother had murdered said chief judge.
"And it came to pass as he was thus pondering – being much cast down because of the wickedness of the people of the Nephites, their secret works of darkness, and their murderings, and their plunderings, and all manner of iniquities – and it came to pass as he was thus pondering in his heart, behold, a voice came unto him..." - Helaman 10:3Worth noting is Nephi's observation of their
- secret works of darkness
- murderings
- plunderings
- all manner of iniquities
This is something I can imagine which caused Nephi some confusion, as to how such a delightsome people could turn to secret works of darkness.
I don't know how to stress how disillusioned we are to think that we do not have such things among the best of us. I have come to know for myself that we are riddled with secret works of darkness, and even foster such things. How?
Consider the tight knit group of girls at church, be it in Young Women's or Relief Society. Where are their loyalties? To one another, or to you as someone that one of them visit teaches, or serves in any capacity?
How about the Bishop and his counselors? Do they have loyalty to you, as someone perhaps confiding in their abilities to provide counsel? (Am I stretching this too far?) Do these men share your confidences with one another, to try to lift you up in prayer? Do these counselors then take the burden home, sharing with their wife, who then shares with her tight knit group of friends in a private Facebook group? Possible? I know I have heard stories from bishop's wives who assert that their husband spent so much time on their knees in silent prayer on behalf of their ward family. This is phenomenal, and beautiful. But I can't imagine that all bishops are this strict with confidences. Maybe so? Perhaps it is a spiritual gift which comes with the mantle.
If not, this has great potential to become a secret combination. Call me crazy, but it bears great capacity to be true. Perhaps there is no intent to do murder, but there is great potential for a confidence to be broken, whether implicit or implied. It is right to note that we ought not trust any man but God, so perhaps the consequence of private information being leaked is par for the course. But in truth, "secret" information has been shared in "secret counsels" and has been provided to spouses under the commitment (oath) of secrecy, that one ought not share. We foster this simply in the structure of our private meetings and presidencies.
Perhaps this is what God intended. But perhaps not. I submit that there is a great potential for evil among us in these "tight knit groups", and we ignore the warning of the Book of Mormon by never, ever ever ever ever talking about secret combinations in Church. These opportunities for secret combinations, secret trusts, secret oaths, and loyalties being severely broken causing hearts to burn in sheer pain of the disloyalty are rampant. We foster these kinds of environments. And we are all likely unknowingly guilty or participating on various ends of the situation, without even thinking twice.
Think I jest? Or exaggerate? Ask yourself, how many private meetings have you been in where secret confidences were shared with you or another soul? Was permission granted for these things to be shared? And what should happen if the private information was shared, without permission? Would relationships be severed? Could forgiveness be easily granted?
"Blessed art thou, Nephi, for those things which thou hast done; for I have beheld how thou hast with unwearyingness declared the word, which I have given unto thee, unto this people. And thou hast not feared them, and hast not sought thine own life, but hast sought my will, and to keep my commandments." -Helaman 10:4Let us rid ourselves of secret works of darkness. The need for cliques which cause those watching to feel excluded, secret groups where we gossip about others, or places where people can "only trust one another" and "have one another's back" ought to be reconsidered. I understand the need for some privacy, and I'm not saying that from time to time we all need a close friend or three to help sort things out. (Hello, Jesus? Can you help me out?) I would consider such friendships a gift. But to have secret groups, book clubs, BFFs, etc. at the outright exclusion of others looking on who would enjoy participating in such a group only serves to destroy the unity of the whole. Why would an onlooker bother attempting to foster a relationship with someone who is known to be a part of such a thing? Could they trust that anything spoken in their company would not be shared and chewed on by the private group? It is not Zion, and Zion cannot be achieved when such things abound. For the hearts are not pure when others are deemed "less" than those in the group, and pride rules the day. Seek to root these things out.
Secret combo's abound. I had never really thought about a face book group that way before, but I see your point.
ReplyDeleteWorks in the Dark are one of the reasons I am not welcome in my ward anymore. Couldn't go along with it.
Thanks for this, Dave..
Thanks for your comment, Dave. This was a sticky post to write, since I understand that in some larger groups, or themed groups, it's nice to have a measure of privacy to sort things out. Perhaps this post would be something worth fleshing out more, as I did a bit of a drive-by attempt here. All the more reason for further discussion, eh? Thanks for stopping by and leaving a thoughtful comment. :)
DeleteThanks for your response and time, I should clarify or add to my comment above in that as a result of my own separation from my active church participation, I have had some of the most meaningful encounters or discussions with a few from there that transition the the barrier (fear) of what was before. God is peaceful, and provides to all his way to remove darkness and give light.
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